In this video, a white man shares his honest thoughts on dating white women — including why he doesn’t trust his partner to make his plate, how white women make it clear they’re not the “prize,” and his take on the stereotype that white women are easier to date, especially in the Black community.
We dive into relationship roles, cultural expectations, and the truth behind dating across racial lines. Whether you agree or not, this conversation will make you think.
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Your personal commentary sounds like a bunch of deeply biased and feminist supporting excuses for why you're more than likely a swirler yourself.The majority of USA native brothers really are voting so to speak,and it's NOT with our voices according to your trivial fib about us.Admit it,you're Lusting after Caucasian dudes but they do NOT share the exact same sentiment about you.
One reason is the history, …Black men got Lynched for just looking at a White woman back in the day. Remember Emmett Till? Or others?
7:20 Red is hilarious.😂
BLACK MEN ACT LIKE THEY CAN’T PROTECT THEMSELVES!!! HOW EMBARRASSING!
Be with who you want to be with but stop talking sh about each other’ go your own way and be happy whatever color you are
Drinking my early morning coffee while scrolling and thought to myself, well this should be good after reading the caption!🤣😂🤣💅🏽🤣😂
My family would talk about me soo bad if I let my man make he’s own plate or lord forbid let someone ELSE do it😅
It may be a demographic also. Im southern and i know alot of southern women black and white that fix their mans plate. I grew up seeing my momma, aunts, cousins do the same so I do also.
I get the men making their own plate, remember back in the day women couldn’t divorce…. So their husbands would have mysteriously deaths 👀 poisons in the food baby 😂
IDC what BM and WW do. I wish them well, as long as they leave BW alone. That's all I care about. Go be together, just leave BW alone.
6:51 😂 its a stereotype for a reason! Wolf n sheep clothing
Hide in Plain SighttThats why YT women hated the film #softandquiet bc it held a mirror to their faces exposing their devious ways They hide in plain sight 😮Check out the last words of Anthony Hopkins in the film PSYCHO as he spoke in his mothers voice “Theyll see me and theyll say Why she wldnt even harm a fly”❕Back in the 90s early 2000s black men were openly saying ww are the way to go. Truth was exposed and it was never safe unless the exceptions
11:26 its the pedastal she prefers that she does not get w YT Men she also feels like she is ranked higher competing w BW vs YT women where she wld be below avg 11:32 its ok 😂thats why u wont tell the real truth reasons bc its ok that we dont know 11:58😂😂😂 12:15 thats why the truth aint in U #softandquiet #getout
The tears of a WW are dangerous only to the black community
15:30 UR ASSUMING that she does not UNDERSTAND and thatsa form of priviledge as well assuming that she always means well. 17:32 THEY KNOW already that theyre in the drivers seat if her word is against his
If they can't use your comb, don't bring them home.. My grandparents told me from experience that WP, Especially WW cannot be trusted…
BW, when WW start crying, you start crying harder. Stop that trying to be strong. I learned this is corporate America. Go straight Karen. Girl, we gon have a cry off!! Men don’t know what to do in a room full of crying women!! 😂😂😂
WW date BM to get back at BW out of envy.. There is no "connection" , just fetishism…
I see what the white lady is saying with the red hair like. Originally, okay, within people who are in healthy interracial relationships. Sure, maybe it won't be for other people to understand but for those who well are aware of history would want to know they want to know like what's your stance? Or even just out of curiosity, all history, aside like, why do you feel compelled to a race that's not your own? I think that's a fair question. Especially when certain races have had very harmful pasts with each other
I don't think enough people have done conscious work to be in healthy interracial relationships. There's always gonna be something in the background. That's lingering, if left unchecked, and that goes for everything, just because you ignore it, or you brush it under the rug or you put a nice, pretty face over it, right. That doesn't make the actual. It should go away, especially when it's residual from harmful history, it just changes tone. It's more covert, and it's harder to pinpoint. Especially because it's like, oh no. I I'm putting this is what I'm doing, but it's like, no look deeper and so honestly, until, people have We're really transformed and renewed their mind and hearts toward each other. There are very few interracial relationships that will be healthy and a lot of mixed kids Unfortunately, are testament to that very sentiment the wounds they bare…
It's not enough that our people die daily at the hands of these people Some are determined to willfully die for people who from history tells you who they are from Samson to modern times😮!
A part of me says, I see it as betrayal. Once you turn your back on us, stay where you are.
Ww are dangerous but POC women are just as or even more dangerous because they are ( People Of Color )…
I make my daddy's plate when we are at a function together but that's because he is my father and been there for me my whole life. I am grateful to serve him out of love for him(never even noticed if my mom ever did/does)😂😂😂 I have a wife so if he's not there my plate is the only one I'm making.
I don't mind a black men dating a white girl or any kinda girl. But when you ask them what they like about her it's basically that she is not black. What black men demand of black women (the drudgery, the body and the look (I wont talk to no girl who doesn't have ass), cooking, cleaning, emotional labour, financially contributing to the home…. they don't place those same expectations on white women or other races. They eat the unseasoned food and don't mind the lack of bodily assets. She's messy and he don't care. But a black woman? No she needs to give him sun moon and stars. Black women please go where you are wanted and valued. Baby girl if a black man is doing that then great. But if its someone else from another race don't block your blessings girl
I can't understand nothing you are saying and you ain't even black, you are an African.
😂😂😂YOU PLAYED EVERYTHING TWICE TO MAKE THE VIDEO LONGER????????????????? WACK
I would never be with a white woman you crazy 😂, because her white family own the courts, the banking system and everything else.
Both black men and women are suckas for yt people, always seeking their validation about who dates who for what. Yall litterally degrade your people with the same race of people who enslaved your people. It is a sickness.
More keeping women divided because if we ever come together then we'd realize ALL men ain't shit.
Every black man with a white woman deteriorates over time. That’s a fact especially here in the UK, I think it’s a spiritual thing, they drain their energy. This is what I’ve noticed with the men some women I see they loose their identity but generally women are stronger spiritually than men so maybe harder for energy to be drained
Stay away from these devils PERIOD!!! What does the Bible AND holy Quran say about this?!
..a suspicious plate of food? …that's their problem; that's what they were created to do!!
I am a black woman with a preference for white men. I hate when people try to say that we are all just wishing we had a black man but a white man is our last resort. I USED to think I thought that way too. UNTIL I realized that I actually do like and prefer white men more. And no, it’s not out of pain or my inability to get the black man I want. I genuinely prefer them.
You looked into a very important topic. Truth is life and its complications have shadowed the many reasons this painful discussion circulates and re-circulates. The black men who express their vehemence for black women really do not love themselves because, as you said, they may have black mothers and on the other hand they truly are immature and have never learnt to express themselves!
I think it’s crazy how you were talking about black American men and women and you’re not black American
These are very low iQ conversations.
Sister, that is the opinion of one white man.